She always has options, and so she doesn’t “have” to reply to your texts if they don’t spark her interest.
Principle #2 – Make her feel something – Women make decisions about who to give their attention to based on how to they feel in the moment.
Have you ever met a girl and you were both clearly interested in seeing each other again, but for some reason you never got her out on the first date? She gave you her number, you started texting each other, but then something weird happened…It’s simple. When you learn the rules of the game, you can play to win.You didn’t know how to keep her interested in you over text long enough to get her out on a date. texting is like a big mystery for a lot of us guys. Once you learn the “secret structure” of flirting over text, it’s like having a superpower…During that time, you’re competing with all her social media notifications, friends, family, and other guys who are interested in dating her as well. just like you do, so how are you going to stand out in that sea of noise? Most women don’t answer the phone these days, and prefer to communicate by text (at least until they get to know you better). It’s a requirement if you want to date an attractive woman.Let’s start with how to actually learn about texting.She wants a guy who is going to step up and ask her out. Mistake #3 – Not having a plan before you text her – Lots of guys will fire off a boring text without giving it much thought. ” What they don’t realize is that she gets texts like this all the time from other guys. She still has good feelings about meeting you, and she gave you her number so she could see you again. Now if you notice in the first text, I sent a combination of stage 3 and stage 2.
Instead, just put a little thought into what you want to send her, and you’ll be much more likely to stand out and win her attention. There’s no reason to initiate some long, drawn out “get to know you over text” conversation. First, I reminded her of what we connected over when we first met (ethnic food).If she’s getting a bunch of typical, boring texts from you, and other guys are sending her texts that make her feel good and capture her interest, she’s going to go out with them and not you. To begin with, the phone number by itself is totally useless, and here’s why: When a girl gives you her number, she’s not giving you a guarantee of a date.She’s only giving you an invitation to keep contacting her.If you give her a spike of positive feelings with your texts and THEN ask her out…that’s like heating up the metal and then bending it. When you ask her out while she’s feeling good about you, the chances of her saying yes are much higher.Mistake #2 – Waiting too long to invite her out and set up the date – The main reason you get a girl’s number is because you’re not able to take her out on a date right then and there when you meet her. The longer you wait to ask her out, she more chance she has to forget about you.