Cons: Demanding that your child waits until marriage to have sex without explaining why may backfire.Using a punishment approach (the infamous, "If you have sex, you will go to Hell" approach) may only make your teen more curious. You must decide before you go on the date what your limits will be.
Cons Some people say they are Christians, but they are not necessarily Godly in their actions.
Setting this rule alone can breed lying and inappropriate activities.
Cons: The other couple may not share the same values as your Christian teen.
They may encourage inappropriate activity or leave early.
Pros: Telling your teen to be careful when holding hands, kissing, or touching can help him or her avoid situations that can end up going too far.
It also helps teens identify early when a situation is becoming dangerous.
Pros: Going on a date with another couple helps hold your teen responsible and resist temptation.
Christian teens face a lot of the same temptations as other young people, so having friends there can be helpful.
Pros: The Bible says Christians should be yoked to fellow believers.
If a teen is dating another Christian, there is a greater likelihood that they will remain abstinent and supportive of one another.
Physical touch/intimacy should correspond with commitment. This doesn’t mean anything goes if you are engaged. What is your motivation -- power and control, gratifying your own ego, meeting a selfish need, or genuine affection?